Minuscule, But Important Updates

So yesterday I just sent out my passport application. With it were rather sensitive documents, such as my old passport and my marriage certificate. If I'd had the option, I would have secured that package with a microchip or something. I've been tracking it and so far it is moving along smoothly. On the other side of the pond, my hubby has been gathering the things he needs to submit as well. He's been looking at houses for us to stay in, as well as getting the things he needs from work. He contacted a legal adviser, so the whole Carer's Allowance situation might be explained better for us. I've downloaded an app that allows texting and calling, for I still do not have phone service. My brother told me it's time to get under a contract. Hearing that made me realize that I'm twenty, unemployed, and still live with my parents. Needless to say, I feel pretty pathetic now. ☹️ 
But I am working on the Spouse Visa right now, so at least I am not completely incompetent. At least I am doing something with my life instead of just laying around playing on my phone. Both my parents work hard during the day, and I feel guilty if I lay around being lazy. I clean the house if need be and try to stay on top of things. But I don't feel like it's enough sometimes. I could get a job, but not only do I not have phone service to call and get rides, but I am moving soon. And we are REALLY close to having the funds for this.

But I wonder if my family members see me as lazy and incompetent? ☹️